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Father's Day Fish Fry

The Father's Day fish fry — whiting, catfish, or porgies fried golden in cornmeal, served with white bread, hot sauce, potato salad, and slaw, often by and for the men of the family. The fish fry is where Black men gather, cook, and pass the day; on Father's Day it becomes a tribute meal to the fathers.

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Why it is ours

The fish fry is a cornerstone of Black men's social life — the fishing trip, the fry afterward, the cooking done by the men, the fellowship around the fryer. On Father's Day it honors the fathers, and across the year it is a fundraiser, a Friday tradition, and a space where Black men gather in community.

What it does

Of all the celebration plates, the fish fry starts from the healthiest protein on the table — fish brings omega-3s, vitamin D, and lean protein that directly serve the Black male heart-and-prostate health burden. The catch is the cornmeal crust and the frying oil, which add fat and, in old oil, inflammatory load. The rehab is straightforward and keeps the tradition: fry in clean oil at the right temperature so the fish absorbs less, use a light cornmeal dredge, and serve with the potato salad and slaw in modest portions and a vegetable on the side. Even fried, this plate's fish core is real nutrition — and the gathering of Black men cooking and eating together is itself protective against the isolation that drives Black men's health outcomes down.

How it is cooked

Whole or filleted whiting, catfish, or porgies dredged in seasoned cornmeal and fried hot; served with white bread, hot sauce, potato salad, coleslaw, and often spaghetti on the side (the fish-fry tradition).

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